Ok i will do my very best to explain my set-up and my issue.
First,
Any time i use my credit card, i get a text message almost immediatly about the transaction.
The message always comes in like this
so i have set up this rule





and it works great, i do not have to type read.
and the outcome is this

Now i have another rule setup.
What this rule does is send the balance of my card, that i just got, to my wifes phone.
using this rule





which also works great. But thie issue is, if anyone, and i do mean anyone send me a message that is more than say 2 lines long, they will get a response Read and i will not be aware of the text message arriving.
does that make since?
A friend of mine sent me a text message today that said something like, hey are you going on xbox live tonight? and my phone sent Read to him.